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Internet, Social Media and Grandparents

I constantly read derogatory articles about the younger generation and the time they spend on Social Media and the Internet. Is there really something wrong with communicating with people via Cyberspace?

When I was about 14 years old I lived in Brooklyn, NY. How did teenagers communicate in the 50s? OK….We did not have Cell Phones, TV, Text Messaging, Email, Social Media, or Computers! We did have AM Radio, but the signals usually drifted in and out in the evening hours! LOL. No FM radio! “Yep, we lived like Cave Men!” LOL. On the positive note; we did have the “promise of a “Cell Phone” that was yet to be invented. Dick Tracey, a cartoon character in the “Daily News,” flaunted a wrist mounted “Two Way Radio.” Oh how wonderful it would be to have a “Wrist Radio!”

As a teenager, my “gang of friends,” congregated in front of “Al’s Prime Meat Market,” on 39Th St. and 12Th Avenue, in Boro Park, Brooklyn, NY. Every evening about 35 of us gathered on the corner and talked to each other. Every evening we talked to the same 35 people.

The younger generation communicates with hundreds of their friends, on a daily basis. Is the written form of communications less valid than the spoken word? My Granddaughter has 800 people listed as friends on her Facebook account.

You may be surprised to find out that not all of the older generation, are brainwashed by the old way of communicating. Many of the older generation do not subscribe to the outdated social mandate which expects you to “act your age.” An increasing number of the “older generation” are very much in tune with the modern ways of social interaction. For example: 117 Sachem High School Alumni, from the Classes of 1959 through 1965 are members of our Facebook Group, which is called “Sachem Alumni 1959 - 1965.” (Sachem High School, Lake Ronkonkoma, NY) https://www.facebook.com/groups/58645312298/

In addition: 120 Sachem High School Alumni, from the classes of 1959 through 1965 are members of the Sachem High School, Alumni Group, that interacts via the following Blog. http://reunion98.blogspot.com/ Correspondence is generally through Email, and articles of general interest are published to our Blog. I am happy to say that the younger generation cannot claim exclusive ownership of the modern Internet, and social media; your grandparents share this honor with you! LOL “Sorry guys,” some Grandparents are also “cool.” LOL

There is nothing more precious than maintaining contact with your classmates from high school, 50 years after graduation! Guess what “kiddies,” we like the Internet and social media, more than you do! LOL. If “Grandparents” thrive on the Internet, it is only reasonable to offer our support and approval to our grandchildren. Hey! We do have something in common after all! LOL

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