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Hurricanes: Where the Force of God Crashes with the Forces of Man

Frankenstorm: Has it created a human monster?

Police on guard at every gas station?  I think this is as horrible a vision as any left by the havoc hurricane Sandy wrought.  Have we become such an amoral, narcissistic, lawless society, that a short gas shortage reduces us to Dodge City?  Had it been a water or food shortage, would we have had to call in the National Guard to stop the looting?  Would we have had to board up our houses once again -- this time not from the fury of gale force winds, but from the fury of humans? 


The name Frankenstorm is beginning to fit. The human monster created by this disaster is terrifying.  What messages are the so-called adults of our communities sending out to our children?  Do we not teach them to share and wait their turn on line?  We tell them that bullying is wrong, but then show them, that it's OK for grown ups to bully each other.

Could we use this time on gas lines to listen to music, read a book, or play with our cell phones?  Could we use it as a moment to chat with our neighbors, who are also waiting on line?  What in the world has happened to people?  In the 1970s, when we had to wait on gas lines, we did it. We waited patiently, and back in the day, there were a lot less electronics to entertain us while we waited.

Long Island, in this day and age of news traveling at the speed of light, the world is watching us.  The phrase, "ugly American," is sadly ringing all too true. 

I am using poetic license and slightly changing J.F.K.'s infamous words: "Ask not what your county can do for you, ask what you can do for your county."

What about bullying an already stretched to the seams L.I.P.A?  They did not create this mess, and crews are working round the clock, doing the best they can to help.  Enough already with the hissy fits and throwing temper tantrums, while aiming missiles at our local and national government officials.  None of this is doing any of us any good. 

In Matthew 12:25, and later used in a speech by Lincoln, Jesus said, "Any kingdom divided against itself is laid waste; and any city or house divided against itself will not stand."  We, as a community, have to stand together.  We are all on the same team.  We are not an army of one, but a civilized society, that can overcome anything, when we come together as a loving unit.  But if we're going to fight each other like cats and dogs, we will all walk away more bruised and battered than before.

It will take the greatest minds of the 21st century, and the grace of God, for we, as a people, to figure our way out of the mess that our raping of the earth, and the resulting global warming have created. If we harness the good powers of the universe, we will find solutions and survive as a species.  We can choose to either rise to the occasion and use our higher consciousness -- Cosmic Consciousness -- harnessing the spark of God housed within us; or we can descend to our animal nature -- to the dog--eat-dog mentality, in which we behave like a pack of scavenging, wild dogs, reverting to our savage nature. 

We can rebuild together.  Each of us can help heal the earth and our towns using whatever God given gifts we have.  I am choosing to use my words to help soothe the tattered human spirit.  I envy those skilled enough to use their tools and skills to actually build or fix structures.  Whatever your job is, do it now as a labor of love.  As you stock the store shelves, bless the powers that be, for the abundance now being showered upon us.  Pick up the trash, cut the trees, teach your children well, whatever it is that you do, do it with consciousness that this world is built one brick, one word, one good deed at a time.  Never forget: the world as we know it can be more quickly and more easily destroyed with -- one gale force, one angry word, or with one push of a button.  We have always gotten by with a little help from our friends, and we have always depended upon the kindness of strangers. This is the way of the world.

We need a miracle right now.  Miracles are earned and then granted by the grace of God.  We can choose to be Scalawags or Carpetbagges, pirates or piranhas. We could also choose to be angels on earth, earning our wings -- one kind word word and deed at a time.

Greed breeds greed and kindness is contagious.  Do we want the world to remember Frankenstorm as the storm that dubbed Long Island, "Dodge Island?"

Godspeed, Long Island.

jeanne November 4, 2012 at 06:31 pm
Well written
Michael November 4, 2012 at 06:38 pm
Well saud and hope many will see this and use as inspiration to help one one another on a dialy basis
Robert Huber November 4, 2012 at 06:51 pm
I couldn't agree more! Being in law enforcement has exposed me and my colleagues to these types of people on a regular basis. Unfortunately,this horrific storm has driven them all out into society for everyone to deal with.
Linda Gargiulo November 4, 2012 at 06:53 pm
Cindi, I assume you wrote this. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I am so ashamed of the animal like behavior of our fellow citizens during the past few weeks in general. Sandy has made some very ugly people. Children learn more by what the see than what they are told. We all should be counting our blessings for what we have. Obviously the people on those gas lines are upset, but, they and I hope their family members are alive...Praise the Lord for that!! Be blessed in life, it's so much better than being bitter...thanks Cindi!!
SachemMom November 4, 2012 at 07:03 pm
I'm not experiencing any of the above, we are all helping each other in our neighborhood, we are all asking if anyone needs anything before leaving our houses, to conserve on gas, and we are making sure that the people that need to get to work get gas, even if we have to switch places on line, yes we drive up to relieve the other person on the long line. Then you get someone who barrels in after you have listened to music, read your book and been patient. That is where it ends. Fair is fair. I have offered my home to people that just want to shower and have a warm cup of tea. All of my neighbors have taken in house guests. The sense of community and caring is my neighborhood is very clear right now, and am very blessed to live here. Wish the best to all right now. I just long for some normalcy for the children, they are begging to go back to school at this point. The animal like behavior are the same people that are rude in everyday life, cutting you off, running red lights, showing bad manners in public, they are sticking out like sore thumbs right now, they've always been there!
Jill November 4, 2012 at 07:38 pm
there is another side of this story... I have seen & heard of people behaving badly, illegally and in some cases savagely, but I have also seen people showing an amazing depth of generosity, compassion and in most cases pure tenacity to overcome! Here in Lindenhurst there have, unfortunately, been instances of looting, gas syphoning and other behaviors that not only make us look bad but are hurting people when they are at their lowest. But this community has stepped up to help each other, to provide, to comfort and to rally for those affected by Hurricane Sandy. Watching my fellow Lindenhurst residents step up has been amazing and inspiring. Through it all, the good and the bad, the moments that stay with me are not the news of looting or the gas lines or even complaints about LIPA... it is the people, the people who are working tirelessly to help and those in the most affected areas who hold their head up and say "We will rebuild" and who when offered help or a donation point down the block and say "give it to him, he needs it more". That is the essence of our spirit, not the looters, not the ones that take advantage... the couple whose belongings are sitting at the curb but direct you to the house with a hole in the side!
Sharon Stallone-Haneman November 4, 2012 at 07:40 pm
Personally I am very offended by this article. I live in Sachem and everywhere I go people are being very patient and kind. What you are talking about is a very small percentage of what is going on. You always have that 1 idiot. But, you are making it sound like we are all acting like a bunch of animals and that is not even close to being true. I am very proud of my neighbors and my community.
summamom November 4, 2012 at 07:56 pm
i age with Sharon...i haven't seen any mean spirited acts out there since the storm... i know there is always going to be a few that ruin it all for others but that's any given day... sorry you felt so bad to write such a long story...i hope things get better for you. But you will see that you have a lot of support here to..
John K Massaro November 4, 2012 at 08:01 pm
God. Now THAT'S funny...
Dfg Cvbn November 4, 2012 at 08:21 pm
Looking for a friend of mine Susan hansen et tal thanks from rick
Holly Daven November 4, 2012 at 09:49 pm
I definitely understand all of Cindi's points. I've often asked similar questions. Where I disagree with Cindi is at what points these nasty types of people show up. They're always around, whether there's a disaster or not. They act like that in restaurants, amusement parks, and on roadways. Whether the sun is shining perfectly, or there's a flood over a quarter of LI, selfish jerks exist. Her questions in this article should not be so reactive, but rather more proactive... There are jerks out there--- okay, so how do we deal with people like this? How can we teach our children to deal with people like this? When people cut in line in front of them, or get in their faces, or flip the bird, take more than they should, or act entitled to everything, and people WILL do these things... A LOT... what are appropriate responses we teach our children in order to deal w them? Those nasty types of people are clearly not going anywhere, so instead of aimlessly wondering how it got this way, let's just learn how to handle it and attack the issue from the inside. Kids learn from example, yes, but so do adults.
Jenn Jorgensen November 5, 2012 at 02:24 am
I think that in times like these, the good people get better. The not so good, get worse.
Michael Guy November 5, 2012 at 10:09 pm
and ain't that the truth J.J. - so true, as is the case when people age, their best and worst qualities get exaggerated. Let's hope you Long Islander's (I grew up in Sayville and it was wonderful!) meet with only the best in coming days after such a hard blow!
Michael Guy November 5, 2012 at 10:10 pm
Disasters and extreme circumstances always bring out all types...Hope you find more of the better than the worse!
Lynn Klein November 6, 2012 at 02:56 pm
There are a lot more than one or two idiots out there. Try reading the paper and looking at all the idiots arrested for pulling a gun or knife on gas attendants and folks in line.
Read about the looting in Mastic Beach and Lindenhurst
K. November 6, 2012 at 03:02 pm
I've noticed that the folks that relied on themselves have fared significantly better than the folks that are in need of federal assistance or have been put into the position of relying on the federal complex.
John Whitton November 6, 2012 at 04:00 pm
It is interesting how Mother Nature seems to rule over all of mankind's technologies combined. We must know that sometimes we have no control and must learn to adjust to these weather events. My house is in order with power, food and gas for my car. It is a time to be grateful for the simple things out of all our luxuries we have on Long Island. JW
Frank November 12, 2012 at 10:40 pm
hurricanes are as old as time itself. Long Island's history is chock full of hurricanes and it was much busier in the past than it is today.
The only Monster I see is the practice of patronage by NYS government: Appointing LIPA Board Trustees with no relevant experience in running a major utility. They have a dietitian on the LIPA Board of Trustees... yeah a dietitian. Job Courtesy of Senator Dean Skelos. And people wonder why Long Island ran out of utility poles but had carrot and celery sticks to spare. ROTFL
Concerned Citizen November 16, 2012 at 08:21 pm
Being the Number 1 psychic on Long Island, Cindi should have seen Sandy and all the associated problems coming and used her relationship coaching skills to help all get along.
Frank November 16, 2012 at 08:23 pm
wow... good burn! Felt that one in Florida!

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